
Grish and I decided to pull in the wedding schedule since we (sort of) agreed to cut-down expenses, which would technically spare us a few months' worth of savings. So from November 8, we moved it to September 8, 2007 - the first year anniversary of our engagement.
We have been working with the Nov 8 date for quite some time now, although we never really reserved that date in the UP chapel. For some reason, we were able to secure reservations first with the reception venue (Balay Kalinaw) and the photographer (
Pat Dy). But for the single most important thing (the church), we haven't been able to tick that off our checklist.
Something happened (which I don't have the heart to share yet) that prompted us to make do with a (first time I heard from Grish) nuclear wedding (must be more explosive than before!). Fewer people, fewer guests, and thus fewer mouths to feed. ;) Simple, quick, and intimate. We decided to go for the next significant "8" day - September 8.
We should not have gotten September 8. It was (again, terms I learned from Grish), a Catholic "day of obligation" as it was Mother Mary's birthday. People are expected to go to mass, and, for the devout couples, would be a perfect day to get married. So it was that when we knocked on the glass pane window counter of the parish office, I wasn't really expecting that the date would be free - although I was crossing my fingers and toes. As the clerk paged through the reservation logbook for July, then August, the improbability of it all prompted me to think, "Lord, if you really favor this marriage, you'd give us this date." I'm not one for signs or for challenging the divine - but I guess I got careless.
The logbook page for September 8 was clean - no inkblots, no erasures. We were the first to sign in on that date. It's corny, but right then I *knew*, with a feeling far stronger than when we decided November 8. He wants us together. And He will bless the union in THIS church.
Grish was equally suprised and ecstatic. She took a picture of the clerk as she was writing our names on the logbook. "I-b-blog namin", she explained.
She didn't get it, and her boss went out of the room to escape from the picture-taking. But she went along with it and continued scribbling our names.
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It turned out that Balay Kalinaw has a scheduled event at September 8. But it's okay.
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We used Grish's phone to take the pic. I haven't gotten a copy yet.